How do you build your new expat community?

March 6, 2023 in Ex-pat

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Building a strong expat community is a key element to a more fulfilling and rewarding expatriation.


A strong and solid expat community offers expatriates emotional and social support, practical advice on living in their new country, as well as opportunities to explore the local culture and develop personal and cross-cultural skills. You need to build a strong expat community to live the best expat life possible.


By being surrounded by a strong expat community, you will feel more secure and confident in your surroundings, which will help reduce the stress and anxiety often associated with expatriation, especially in the beginning. You will feel less lonely and isolated, which will help improve your mental and emotional well-being in your expatriate life.


A strong expat community can provide opportunities for personal and professional growth and development.


Through your community, you will be able to learn new skills, explore new hobbies and activities, and meet people who work in different fields than you and who may be able to offer you job opportunities.


Finally, a strong community will help you better understand the local culture and develop a deeper appreciation for cultural differences. This can be extremely rewarding and will help you broaden your perspective and view of your new country and the world in general.

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Rebuilding a community during expatriation is one of the pillars of a happy and fulfilling life abroad


Rebuilding one's community is one of the essential pillars for a happy and fulfilling expatriate life. Feeling connected and supported by others helps us to adapt more easily to our new environment and to overcome the emotional and cultural challenges we face during our expatriation.

A strong expat community will help you feel more comfortable and at home. You will develop a strong sense of belonging (Ibasho in Japanese) and a sense of resonance with the people around you, which is one of the basic needs of every human being - and one of the 8 basic needs of ikigai. 

However, it is important to note that building an expat community takes time and effort. 


You must be proactive and motivated. You will most likely face cultural and language barriers, as well as social and life-view differences. That is why it is important to stay actively involved in building your new social life and not be discouraged by the difficulties and confusing situations you may face.

Building an expat community is an ongoing process that requires patience, commitment and openness. You will go through ups and downs in this process, this is normal, don't forget it!


Why is it important to rebuild a strong community in your new country?


There are several reasons why it is important to rebuild a social life in your new country:

  1. Avoiding social isolation: Living in a foreign country can be a rewarding experience, but it can also be very difficult socially. Expatriates can feel lonely and isolated, especially if they don't know anyone in their new environment. By building a community, you can find emotional and social support and feel more connected to your new life.
  2. Learn the local culture: A local community can help you better understand the culture and customs of the country in which you are living. By meeting locals, you can learn the language, traditions, food habits, and important cultural events, which can help you integrate more easily into your new life.
  3. Create a professional network: By joining local professional groups or associations, you can meet people who work in similar industries and who can be a source of advice and support for your career. This community can help you find job opportunities or establish contacts in the industry in which you work.
  4. Improve quality of life: Expatriates who have a strong community in their new country are generally happier and more satisfied with their lives. A community can help create a sense of belonging and make the experience of being in a foreign country more enjoyable.
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Rebuilding one's social life and a strong expat community is often one of the first challenges expatriates face when they arrive in a new country. 


Living in a new environment can be stressful and intimidating. This is especially true when you don't know anyone locally. That's why it's important to actively seek out new contacts and build social relationships.


Here are some tips to help you rebuild your local community:

  1. Join groups or clubs: Sports clubs, hiking groups, book clubs or common interest groups can be a great way to meet people with similar interests.
  2. Attend local events: Attending local events such as concerts, festivals, exhibitions or sporting events is a great opportunity to meet people and learn about the local culture.
  3. Learn the local language: Learning the local language will help you communicate more easily with locals and feel more comfortable in your new environment.
  4. Use social networks: Social networks such as Facebook, Meetup or Instagram are great ways for expats to connect with other expats or locals.
  5. Get involved in the community: Getting involved in volunteer activities or joining community organizations will help you connect with like-minded people and feel useful in your new community.

As mentioned, building new social relationships takes time and effort. But it is worth it! Multiply the opportunities to connect with new people, whether it's at the local coffee shop, with your neighbors or in your association!


Building a strong expat community to avoid social isolation


Social isolation is a common problem for expats, especially at the beginning of their expatriation. Being in a new environment where you don't know anyone can be tough emotionally. This can lead to feelings of isolation, loneliness, and even anxiety.

It is therefore important for expats to take action to avoid social isolation and actively seek to connect with others in their new country.

Remember that it is normal to feel lonely and isolated at the beginning of your expatriation. This is part of the expatriation experience. However, it is important not to let these feelings get the better of you. Don't get overwhelmed. Try to proactively seek out new people to recreate a social life and expat community.

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What are the benefits for an expat to build a strong community during their expatriation?


There are several benefits for an expatriate to rebuild a strong community for their expatriation:

  1. Emotional support: a strong community can provide emotional and social support for the expat. Expats can feel less lonely and isolated if they have friends and acquaintances with whom they can share their experiences.

  2. Local knowledge: A strong community can provide expatriates with a deeper understanding of the local culture and life. Expats can learn more about local customs, traditions and values, which can help ease integration into the new community.

  3. Professional Networking: A strong community can also provide professional and business networking opportunities. Expatriates can meet people who work in their field or who can offer them employment opportunities.

  4. Personal Growth: A strong community can provide opportunities for personal growth. Expatriates can learn new skills, explore new hobbies and activities, and feel more secure in their surroundings.

  5. Stress Reduction: Finally, a strong community can help reduce the stress and anxiety associated with expatriation. Expats can feel safer and more comfortable in their environment if they have friends and acquaintances to spend time with.

Building a strong expat community is extremely beneficial for expatriates, as it offers emotional support, deeper local knowledge, professional and personal opportunities, and reduced stress and anxiety.


If you are struggling to recreate a strong social life and expat community and are feeling lonely and isolated,

contact us today!


Through our expat coaching services, we will give you the tools and strategies to help you build a strong expat community so that you can feel happy and at home in your new country!

Karly Christ

Karly is a certified NLP and Ikigai coach with over 15 years of expat experience on four continents. Vibrant Ikigai offers workshops and 1:1 coaching services to help expat women move through the ups and downs of this exciting global lifestyle.

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